Nigeria’s biggest problem is not leadership. It’s the people who are from the country. ~~ Every nation gets the government it deserves. Joseph de Maistre (1 April 1753–26 February 1821) Let me explain: So back when I was between 19–20 years old, in the early 2000s, during that period I had long hair, like a big Afro and mostly in braids; I was a massive fan of natural African hairstyles, which made…

One of the worse mistakes I have made in New York has been accepting and keeping a few friendships that I should never have. In particular, one comes to mind; let’s delve into a condensed version of the story. In December of 2014, after a couple of years of working…

NYPD will look for you till you find yourself So, Sunday before Labor Day 2020, my wife Jane and I decided to finally pay a long-postponed visit to a former work friend of hers who had given birth to a baby girl six months before. The Lady, Uche, had become…

An experience of needing to file a complaint within the U.S Military… How much of a waste of time it can be (Parts of this story have been altered for current security requirements. Hopefully, the full story can go into a possible upcoming book) It concerns me; this is a narrative and chronicle of events I experienced within the Military. How I had to navigate and experience the military reporting process of…

I went to Trader Joe’s to shop for fresh vegetables and household groceries. In April, at the end of Spring 2020, right at the height of the Coronavirus pandemic in New York. Since the store was practicing spacing and social distancing because of the Coronavirus situation, there were long and…

On cheapness & thinking one can unnecessarily outsmart reality a lesson. Lets Go… A couple of years ago, not long after I had gotten married, Late September of that year we got married, my wife Jane and I moved to the neighboring state of New York, from Connecticut. I had…

A coin’s other side in this redefined personal relationships era… Imagine me — tall, slender, chocolate dark brown on most of my physical features — hair, eyes, skin. Imagine that I live in New York, where I had lived with my family for about five years. Imagine along the line I had made friends who were all professional scientists, like…